http://www.visitchristcommunity.com/ What's happening in the Singles Ministry at Christ Community Church. en tserra@visitchristcommunity.com Copyright 2010 2010-03-11T13:42:37+00:00 /ccc/february_recap/ /ccc/february_recap/#When:18:31:41Z Secret 1: Recgonize the warning signs: Some of the warning signs offered up are general discontentment, exhaustion, feeing depressed, aches and pains, lack of confidence, increase in bad habits, increased negative thinking, appetite or sleep changes, feeling weepy, worry, nervous habits, pitty parties, inability to make decisions and poor memory. Wow . . .after reading that list I hit them all - some more often than others. I love the quote at the end of Secret #1`,  "We cannot do everything at once, but we can do something at once." One day at a time, one step at a time. Just make sure to keep moving! Secret #2: Isolate your specific Stressors:Attached is a page that is a map shown on Page 61 to identify the stressors in your life. I encourage you to do this exercise and find where your sources of stress are. Don't think, just write! Secret #3: Identify what you can and cannot control:Sounds easier said that done to this recovering control freak! I've found that whenever I have to make a decision, purchase, etc., I ask myself, is this a Need or a Want. Is is a Want To or a Have To. Then, will this cause more stress, or ease my stress. Then, I make my decision from here. Not always do I make the choice that's most beneficial, but it makes me focus on my accountability to my stress level. Secret #4: Developing Coping Mechanisms:The coping mechanisms offerd up in this chapter are: close your eyes for a few moments, speak calmly to yourself, breathe deeply, sign, be still, create distance, sip a a cup of tea, allow a buffer in your schedule, look and feel your best, tune into your monthly cycle. Again, I love the quote at the end of this chapter.   If your cup is running over (except with love), maybe it's time to turn off the water. Secret #5: Be a creative problem-solver:This chapter is all about the difference between rational and insightful problem-solving. Focus on the problem and the desired outcome, talk to God - let him do the heavy lifting, see the good in all situations - even if it's only 1% of the situation. Focus on the good. Secret #6: Problem solving in action:There are a lot of common problems and creative solutions in this chapter. Again, many of these problems or worries are on my plate now or have been in the past. I've found this chapter very practical and helpful. I think one of my most creative solutions was to the stress of coming home from work after picking the kids (when they were WAY little) and not having time to switch gears.  I begin changing into comfy clothes before I left work. What a HUGE differnce this made.  By the time I got the kids' daycare, my mind was already switched. Find small ways to make big differences. Next month (March 14th) we'll discuss Secrets 7 - 11Secret #7: Practice healthy self-careSecret #8: Rethink life balanceSecret #9: Simply your lifeSecret #10: Get out of the fast laneSecret #11: Get off the 24/7 These chapters will make a big difference. It's all about redefining your life and schedule to keep stress out and contentment in. singles 2010-02-22T18:31:41+00:00 /ccc/classic_singles_bible_study_meetings/ /ccc/classic_singles_bible_study_meetings/#When:13:26:15Z Classic Singles will meet 2 Sundays each month through May from 5:30 - 7:30 at Jim Furr's.  A casual dinner will be provided each Sunday. The dates for the next couple months are February 21, March 7 & 21 and April 11 & 25.   Currently viewing a 3-part DVD series entitled The Unbreakable Promise…God's covenant with Abraham, Moses and David.  singles 2010-02-09T13:26:15+00:00 /ccc/membership_class/ /ccc/membership_class/#When:13:25:13Z MEMBERSHIP CLASSChrist Community ChurchSunday, February 21, February 28 and March 7, 201010:30am - 11:30am (during second service)Location: Conference RoomAnyone interested in membership should join us for three consecutive Sunday mornings on February 21, February 28 and March 7.  Each person must register with Shelly Anderson at the Welcoming Center, and complete the required membership application for the first class. youngadults, singles 2010-02-09T13:25:13+00:00 /ccc/classic_singles_super_bowl_party/ /ccc/classic_singles_super_bowl_party/#When:14:14:25Z Big Game PartySunday February 7, Super Bowl Party, 5:30pm to half-time (8:30-9:00pm??)Since our regularly scheduled CS meeting falls on the same evening as the Big Game, we are combining the 2 events!  Please join us for burgers and brats at Jim Furr's.  Feel free to bring an appetizer, snack or beverage to share.  We'll have games to play too.  Don't hesitate to bring along some of your own!  gailprettyman@yahoo.com. singles 2010-02-01T14:14:25+00:00 /ccc/classic_singles_recap/ /ccc/classic_singles_recap/#When:13:25:43Z We had a great turn-out on Sunday Jan. 10, our first meeting of the new schedule!  We're glad to hear that Sunday nights are more convenient for most of you.  Please join us next Sunday the 24th, for tacos and dessert. We will be viewing part 2 of the DVD series on the city of Jerusalem. singles 2010-01-19T13:25:43+00:00 /ccc/classic_singles_-_dinner_at_green_papaya_restaurant/ /ccc/classic_singles_-_dinner_at_green_papaya_restaurant/#When:13:00:23Z Dinner at Green Papaya RestaurantFriday, January 29, 6:00pmGreen Papaya Restaurant290 E. Lincoln HighwayBusiness Route 30Exton PA 19341www.TheGreenPapaya.netPlease let me know by the 28th if you are able to make it, so I can reserve a table. Last minute arrivals are OK too. singles 2010-01-19T13:00:23+00:00 /ccc/single_moms_january_recap/ /ccc/single_moms_january_recap/#When:13:25:09Z What an encouraging group Sunday! Here's a recap so far:The truth about stress is that it's not always harmful to our health. Stress is a natural part of being human. We need a little tension in our lives to keep us stimulated.  Not all stress comes from negative events - happy, joyful events (like Susan's housefull of guests over the holidays) causes a type of stress. We can be blindsided by unexpected stress, such as leaving a toasty warm house for the bitter cold to walk the dog.Because the world is so much more complex, stressful living seems worse nowadays. Effective stress management is crucial now more than ever. What is stressful to one person is a cake-walk for another.No matter what the stressor, all stress symptoms deserve and require attention. Ignore stress and it will seep through your body in the form of headaches, jaw clenching, upset stomach, angry outbursts, insomnia . . . and the list goes on. Lastly, harmful stress can drive us to despair.Bottom line here is that we need to manage stress so that it continues to stretch us towards our personal goals without damaging our physical and mental health, personal relationships, future success opportunities, and spiritual beliefs.Take a quick run through the list on page #36 to identify how susceptible you are to stress, then look up each area  you're deficient in on the following pages.Secret #1: recognize the warning signsGeneral discontentment / physical exhaustion and fatigue / prone to illness / feeling depressed / increase in body aches / lack of confidence / increase in addition or bad habits / increase in negative thinking / appetite changes / indigestion, heartburn / sleep changes / crying comes easily / worry over matters you can't change / excessive irritability over small matters / no sense of humor / nervous habits / inability to concentrate / difficulty making decision / having a 'poor me' pitty party / poor memory. For next month, continue with Section 2.  Developing Coping Mechanisms and Problem Solving in Action. singles 2010-01-15T13:25:09+00:00 /ccc/divorce_care1/ /ccc/divorce_care1/#When:11:59:25Z   A new session of DivorceCare begins on Tuesday, January 12, 2010 from 7:00-8:30pm in the Conference Room at Christ Community. The group will meet for 13 seesions and runs through April 6, 2010.  You are welcome to join at any time. The course is video based, with group discussion afterward. You can see more at www.divorcecare.org You can look over the list of topics at http://www.divorcecare.org/about/topics/ Cost is $20 for materials including a workbook to keep and take notes in. Yes, divorce is very traumatic. I have been divorced myself and have known that heartache firsthand. But I can tell you that recovery is possible, especially with the kind of help and support that DivorceCare can provide. You are not alone. The course is for your benefit, and I will do my best to be of service to you.For more information, please email Erik at ephoet@verizon.net or click on the links above. singles 2010-01-05T11:59:25+00:00 /ccc/classic_singles_meeting_dinner/ /ccc/classic_singles_meeting_dinner/#When:11:01:12Z The meeting time will be from 5:30 PM until 7:30 PM.  A casual dinner will be provided each week.  The study/lesson will start promptly at 6:00 PM.   The lesson meeting is planned for one hour after which social time will be available until 7:30 PM. Looking forward to seeing everyone!Any questions please email Gail at gailprettyman@yahoo.com  singles 2010-01-05T11:01:12+00:00 /ccc/single_moms_group/ /ccc/single_moms_group/#When:10:00:21Z A ministry for single moms!  This group meets monthly on the 2nd Sunday from 9:00-10:00am in room 202.  Currently reading Sanity Secrets for Stressed-out Moms by Sue Augustine.    Childcare is provided for all ages through middle school.  Any single mom is invited to join at any time.  For more information, or to indicate your interest in the group, please email Jen at teamwalsh@hotmail.com or Tracy @tserra@VisitCCC.com or call 610.431.0300 x171. singles 2010-01-05T10:00:21+00:00 /ccc/different_ministries_different_life_circumstances/ /ccc/different_ministries_different_life_circumstances/#When:16:11:40Z Christ Community offers singles ministries for different ages and life circumstances.  Single Moms can gather with other single moms monthly on the 2nd Sunday 9:00-10:10am in room 202You can serve our single moms through our Many Hands ministryThose facing separation can attend our DivorceCare groupSingles 45+ can check out Classic Singles meetings and social eventsThe upcoming events in these areas can be found at the right of this page under 'events'.  You can also click on any of the individual ministry buttons on the left.  If you have specific questions about any of these ministries, contact Scott, the pastor of single adults, at sallen@VisitCCC.com. singles 2010-01-04T16:11:40+00:00 /ccc/singles_ministries_at_christ_community/ /ccc/singles_ministries_at_christ_community/#When:14:00:16Z CrossRoads (18-30's) and Classic Singles (45+) are the single ministries of Christ Community Church.  If you are a single adult that fit in either of these age demographics, we invite you to consider attending one of our upcoming events. Both groups exist to encourage, equip and empower single adults to pursue a relationship with God and others. All of our events have this focus in mind. If you have further questions about any event, please contact Tracy at tserra@VisitCCC.com.We serve singles through small groups, large groups, social events, service projects, outreach events, and retreats.  Please click on the tabs to left to find out more information about our two groups.For information on our divorce ministries, please click on Single Again to your left.  Single Moms is our most recent single ministry and any single mom is invited to join at any time.  This group meets monthly on the 2nd Sunday 9:00-10:00am in room 202.   If you are a single young adult age 18-30's, visit: http://visitchristcommunity.com/ministries/youngadults. singles 2010-01-01T14:00:16+00:00 /ccc/classic_singles_meeting_cancelled/ /ccc/classic_singles_meeting_cancelled/#When:16:20:10Z The Classic Singles meeting scheduled for Friday December 18 has been cancelled. We aplologize for any inconvenience.  Classic Singles meets next on Sunday, January 10 from 5:30pm - 7:30pm at Jim Furr's.  Dinner provided. Contact Gail at gailprettyman@yahoo.com singles 2009-12-17T16:20:10+00:00 /ccc/divorcecare_-_surving_the_holidays/ /ccc/divorcecare_-_surving_the_holidays/#When:16:17:20Z DivorceCare: Surviving the HolidaysSurviving the Holidays is a warm, encouraging and helpful event. Featuring video instruction and group discussion, it helps you deal with the intense pain of separation and divorce during the holiday season.Lasts approximately two hours. Here’s what we'll do:    * Watch a 40-minute video, filled with practical tips on how to survive the holidays    * Hear from others in your group who are dealing with a marital breakup this holiday season    * Have the opportunity to share how the separation or divorce is affecting you (if you’d like) singles 2009-12-17T16:17:20+00:00 /ccc/singles_christmas_dinner-dance/ /ccc/singles_christmas_dinner-dance/#When:11:00:17Z Singles Christmas Dinner-DanceSaturday, December 5Place:  Kings Mills           6000 Pennell Road (Rt. 452)           Media, PA  19063Time:   7:00-7:30pm - Arrival           7:30pm - Dinner           9:00-11:00pm - Dance    Dinner & Dancing - $40.00Dancing Only - after 9:00pm$15.00 online, $18.00 at the doorDress:  Semi-FormalMusic:  Jim Dawson's DJ ExpressFor Singles of ALL agesRegister at:  http://www.cosnet.org/singlesRSVP by November 30(in case of bad weather, call 610.688.6338 x242)Contact person:  email Nancy Sale at NancyE@cosnet.orgSponsored by Singles Ministry, Church of the Saviour, Wayne, PA singles 2009-11-24T11:00:17+00:00 /ccc/singles/ /ccc/singles/#When:10:00:46Z Singles New Years Eve Dinner-DanceThursday, December 31Join us and we celebrate the New Year.  We have a fantastic dinner planned for this special evening which will be located in the Grand Ballroom of the refurbished Holiday Inn in Fort Washington, PA.  The Holiday Inn is located directly off of the Fort Washingtown exit of the PA turnpike.Place:  Holiday Inn at Fort Washington, PATime:  7:00pm-1:00am - Dinner-Dance - $40 ($45 after 12/1)           9:15pm-1:00am- Dance Only - $20 ($25 after 12/1)You cannot purchase a ticket at the door - NO WALK-INSregister at http://www.cosnet.org/singlesSponsored by Church of the Saviour, Wayne, PA  singles 2009-11-24T10:00:46+00:00 /ccc/singles_dance/ /ccc/singles_dance/#When:16:24:15Z Singles Dance Saturday November 148:00 - 11:00pmCost:  $10 We are doing another dance this year at Bob Berry's house inPhoenixville.  I wanted to pass along the information to see if youwould want to spread the word among all your singles groups. If you want more information please email Janine at jabeanie@juno.com or DOWNLOAD OR VIEW FLYER HERE singles 2009-11-03T16:24:15+00:00 /ccc/maggianos_recap/ /ccc/maggianos_recap/#When:13:09:50Z Last Saturday, 9 of us met at Maggiano's for an authentic Italian dinner.  Some were dressed in costume for that Halloween evening!  We all had a good time sharing dishes. Great food and fellowship! singles 2009-11-03T13:09:50+00:00 /ccc/singles_seminar/ /ccc/singles_seminar/#When:12:35:35Z On Saturday November 7 there is a Singles Seminar from 8:30-3:00 atChristian Life Center in New London Township.The cost is $15 if you register before October 25th and $20 after that date.Lunch is provided as well as child care.The topics look fantastic and include:An ordinary day with JesusHow God prepares You for your future mateThe Five Love Languages for singlesFor more information or to register check out their web-site:www.clcfamily.netThree have already committed and one other is a definite maybe.If you sign up to go please let me know and we can take as few cars aspossible.Thanks,Greg singles 2009-10-21T12:35:35+00:00 /ccc/classsic_singles_bbq_games/ /ccc/classsic_singles_bbq_games/#When:17:28:52Z  End of Summer BBQ and Games!! at Jim Furr's   Sunday October 18 @ 3:30 - 7:30 (Dinner at 5:00) Burgers, brats, salad & drinks will be provided.  Please bring a dessert or a bag of chips or pretzels.   RSVP is required.  Please email james_furr@comcast.net or leave a message at 610-640-2172. singles 2009-10-05T17:28:52+00:00